I want to be with someone who understands.

Why waste my time with someone else who I must put up a front just to try to keep their attention?  I want to be able to be crazy, act silly, and most of all, be myself without feeling that I might be judged in any way.  I want to be with someone who essentially will only want to be with me because they enjoy the kind of person that I am.  I don’t want to put up an act and pretend to be someone I’m not, hiding behind insecurities and lies just to make that person other happy.  I want to be happy.  I deserve to be happy.  And I need someone who will share that same happiness with; someone who understands me and allow me to understand them back.  

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iamlittlemermaid:

Minsan ang pagmamahal dumating sa hindi natin aakalain panahon. Ni kahit din sa taong paglalaanan natin nito. Magugulat ka na lang isang araw  mararamdaman mo na parang ang bilis ng tibok ng puso mo. Mapapansin mo din na parang tila may kulang sa araw mo, hahanapin mo ang dahilan at bigla mong matutukalasan siya pala na nandyan sa tabi ko ng ilang panahon at nakasama ko sa bilang na araw, ang taong minsan na ding naging hatid kung bakit ako masaya. Ay siya pala ang dahilan kung bakit ako nagmamahal. Kung dati simple lang ang araw mo na para bang wala pang kamulatan sa salitang “pag-ibig” ngayon parang tila hindi ka mabubuhay ng walang nararamdaman ganito. Maiintindihan mo sa pagsapat ng takdang araw ang puso mo ay titibok din at hindi aakalain na ang taong iyong paglalaanan eh, nasa tabi mo lang pala. Nakasama mo ng ilang panahon pwede din naman ngayon ngayon mo lang nakita at nakilala. Pwede ding magugulat ka dahil hindi mo aakalain na wow siya pala? ang taong minsan na ding naging bahagi ng iyong nakaraan. Pero kahit ano mang sitwasyon at panahon na ito’y dumating maging handa ka lang kasi nakakasigurado ako sayo. Hindi laging masaya masarap ang magmahal pero ito ang pinakamagandang mangyayari sa buhay mo. Ang magmahal ng taong nakalaan o taong mahal ka din ng buong puso.

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sabbmarine:

• Someone who isn’t afraid to be himself.  

As a girl it is really important for me to be with someone who isn’t afraid to spread his true colors to everyone. He maybe a little bit odd but at least his real right?

• Someone who would love and accept me, for me. 

One of the qualities that every girl would wish their boyfriend would have is the courage to accept and love them for who they are, without makeups, messy hair, and most importantly for their past.

• Someone who has a helping hand.

I guess its not really necessary whether your boyfriend is popular or not to have the initiative to help someone who is in need right? I mean its pretty amazing to look at your future partner to be someone known not for being Mr. Popularity but someone who has a big heart. 

• Someone who is calm. 

Who would want to have a boyfriend who keeps on nagging about simple things? For me, it is really important for a man to stay calm at times of problem. I mean how can you solve a problem when you put things all in anger?

• Someone who could protect US. 

Every girl dreams to have a boyfriend who would not only protect her but also their relationship. I think it would be more sweeter if you show your girl that you not only care for her but also to the ones she love most.

• Someone who would simply care for me.

One of the best things a girl could have is to have a boyfriend who would simply care for her more than she expects. Spoils her like a child, and takea good care of her like an older brother.

• Someone who has the time to listen to all of my stories. 

It may be boring, but it still counts when you have the time to listen to all of my stories even the most non sense of them all. It makes me feel I’m special.

• Someone who would hug me behind my back. 

It’s not really that necessary but its really sweet to have boyfriend who would hug you and make you feel his yours.

• Someone who would understand my mood swings. 

It’s pretty personal but i like a man who would understand my moods and would just stay right by my side in my most uncomfortable times. 

• Someone who would ride on my jokes and tricks. 

I think its sweet to have a boyfriend who would laugh on all of your jokes even if it doesn’t make sense and would return the trick for you so you two would have a fun time together.

• Someone who has trust in what I do. 

It’s really important for me to have a man by my side who would trust me with all my actions and decisions, and if he sees that i can’t handle things by myself anymore, he would simply hold me back. 

• Someone who sees the future in US.  

It’s really sweet to have a boyfriend who would tell me his plans for us in the future and what does he want for our family to be in the future. 

• Someone who respects me. 

It is a must that a man should respect his girl as he respects his mother. In that way, he shows complete respect to the girl’s family and their name.

• Someone who keeps his words. 

For me, its really important to have a boyfriend who would keep his promises and just in case he misses it, he would do all effort to keep up what he missed. 

And most especially I want a man who would do nothing to hurt me. Because I believe that if you really love someone you won’t do anything to hurt her or to give her the chance to feel that she made the mistake of entering into a relationship, Because i believe that love is not to say I’m sorry.

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iamlittlemermaid:

I am not a perfect girl to love.

I get jealous too easily. I hate it when you talk to other girls, I hate it when others could also make you smile like I do and I hate it when you give some time to talk to them. I am a stalker. I would look at all your posts just to know what you are up to. I would call you randomly just to know where you are and what you are doing. I would always text you because I wanna know if you are safe and I know it’s kinda annoying but I can’t help it. I am clingy. I will always find some time to hold your hand or your arms. I want everyone to know that you are mine and no one can take you away from me. I am selfish because I just want you to be mine and no one else. Sharing not allowed. I could be a nagger or a control freak. I could be so obsessed with you. I could be so paranoid that you would want other girls than me because I am insecure. Sometimes, I would feel like I am not pretty enough for you. I am talkative, I would tell you a lot of things that you don’t probably care about. I expect too much. I am just so annoying, you know? But even if I have all these negative traits as a lover, I want you to know that I would try my best to be a good girl for you because I love you. I would love you with all my heart. I would take care of you and I would do anything for you. You could trust me that no one else could make my heart race or make me happy the way you do. You would be the only guy in my life. Yes, I am not perfect but so are you. If you would treat me right, I swear, we could make it through.

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earthtoserina:

 I may not be the girl you truly wished for, a girl who you would love to stare at, because of the pretty and lovely face; I don’t have the perfect and pretty face that everyone admired. A girl you would like to have, because of the sexy and slim body, that every guy had wished for; I am thin and don’t have a sexy body. A girl you would love to be with, because she’s funny and friendly, and has lots of friends everywhere; I am not that girl, I am a girl who remains quiet when everyone is around. A girl who you will be proud to have, because she’s beautiful, smart and popular that every guy would envy you; I’m not that girl I can’t seek attention from them. But if you will accept and love me, for who and whatever I am, I can be the best girl for you; my imperfections will not be a reason anymore. I will make things up to you, I can be loyal and faithful and I promise to love you more than anyone, more than anything. 

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iamlittlemermaid:

Mata ang unang nagmamahal sa panahon ngayon, yan na ang ang paraan ng pagmamahal. Siguro noon pa may ganyan ding motibo. Yung una ang mata ang nagkakagusto at nahuhulog sa patibong ng pag-ibig. Mata ang unang naghuhusga kung paano mo itrato at pahalagahan at pakisamahan ang isang tao. Susunod na lang ang paguugali kapag madalas mo na itong kausap o nakakasama. Admit it. Kapag gwapo o maganda ang iyong nakikilala minsan nasasabi mo ng ay crush ko na to. Minsa pa nga liligawan ko to. Pwede to. Di ba? madalas ganyan pero kapag ang tao wala masyadong itsura pero mabait  sweet at maaaalahanin saka ka lang nahuhulog. Minsan kung paguusapan natin ang realidad na kakadissapoint kasi ang mata mismo ang unang dumidikta kung sino ang dapat mong mahalin na which is dapat ang puso. Kaya dapat ikaw kung magmamahal ka unahin mo ang damdamin mo at wag papadaig kagad sa mata. Magmahal ka na base sa puso mo sa dikta ng puso mo at hindi sa nakikita lang ng iyong mga mata.

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iamlittlemermaid:

When someone treats you like you’re just one of many options , help them narrow their choice by removing yourself from the equation. Sometimes you have to try not to care , no matter how much you do . Because sometimes you can mean almost nothing to someone who means so much to you. It’s not pride – it’s self-respect. Don’t expect to see positive changes in your life if you surround yourself with negative people . Don’t give part-time people a full-time position in your life . Know your value and what you have to offer, and never settle for anything less than what you deserve.

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crumpledpapel:

Dear Future Boyfriend,

From now on until I’ll meet you, I’ll focus on things that I’d like to achieve and do while I still can. From now on, I’ll only give my smiles to people who deserve my smiles — but I’ll save the best ones for you. From now on, I’ll patiently wait for you and reserve myself for you so I’ll be able to give you a lot of things when we’re finally together. From now on, I’ll do my hardest to bring out the best in me so that you’ll have someone worth fighting, waiting and loving for.

.. And when that day when we’ll finally meet comes, I’ll take you to my favorite places — places I’ve never told anyone about. I’ll ask you to lie on the grass with me and watch meteor showers or simply the stars. Then I’ll quietly hold your hand and let your fingers fill the spaces between my fingers. Then I’ll let you touch my face, and I’ll touch yours. I’ll let you wrap your arms around mine and I’ll hug you tightly.

I’ll listen to whatever you have to say. Don’t be afraid if you want to confess your bad sides. I do have one also, and I promise not to judge you and to love you more even despite your flaws. I’ll laugh at your jokes even if they are not funny at all. I’ll take interest in things you want me to be interested into. I’ll wear your shirts and let you act like you are gay. I’ll patiently wait if you just can’t say what’s inside your head and want to just put on the silence. I promise to ride Ferris Wheels and Horror Trains and Roller Coasters. I promise to behave whenever you act like a zoo animal around your friends — but I might scold you after. I will let you touch my hair even if I never let anyone touch my hair. I will introduce you to my parents and I’m sure you’ll gain their blessing.

If we’ll meet, I’ll make sure that you are the one and I will never let you go. And I will stick through thick and thin, and I will always love you. I will always love you. I will always love you.

Love,
Your future girlfriend

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sweetestdownfall-:

I really can’t picture anyone having a crush on me. I can’t picture someone thinking about me before they fall asleep, or telling their friends about me. I can’t picture anyone getting butterflies because I said hi to them, or even just smiled at them. I can’t picture someone smiling at the computer screen or their cell phones when we’re talking.  I mean like; why would they even do that? I’m just me. Nothing extraordinary, or special. 

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