Shy men are seen as lacking self confidence, which essentially they do. They are insecure, seldom make the first move and are not spontaneous. Display a lack of initiative when it comes to meeting women. Women like it when guys can approach us first and be open about stuff. They want to get to know you & if you are shy, there’s no way they can.There’s nothing wrong with being shy but you have to open a bit more.
Women are attracted to men with self-confidence, period. A man who can man-handle her and take charge. Every woman wants to feel secure, be defended and protected, and chances are that a shy man will be hesitant to take control of any uncompromising situation. Shy guys might likely wait for sign to make some action. A woman wants a man that they know they can rely on, who will stand up for her and also would like someone who can lead, take initiative and has firm decisions. A real man.
This is also the reason why it’s common that women like bad boys. Guys who has sense of masculinity. It’s because bad boys have the confidence to admit their feelings towards women without fear of being rejected or so. After all, confidence is all that it really takes. If you get rejected, get over it and move forward.